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  • First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

    Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

    I am greatly looking forward to following up discussions with sixth formers at Gillingham School, Dorset, later this morning between 11.00 and 11.30am. www.gillingham.dorset.sch.uk

    They began when I visited the school on Thursday 25 November 2010, and now we have a chance to continue the question and answer session we had then.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      in the past it suicide has been concidered a sin in the eyes of God. Is this theory within your belief or do you feel that christians now understand mentle health issues ?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        in the past it suicide has been concidered a sin in the eyes of God. Is this theory within your belief or do you feel that christians now understand mentle health issues ?

        Thanks for your very important question. God loves everyone for he created everyone in his image. Any attack on his image on anyone, eg racism, is not in his will for human beings. So since suicide is an attack on someone made in his image, this is not in his will.

        My wife is a psychotherapist and we have discussed mental health issues a lot. God understands all the stresses people are under and is a forgiving God.

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          in the past it suicide has been concidered a sin in the eyes of God. Is this theory within your belief or do you feel that christians now understand mentle health issues ?

          Thanks for your very important question. God loves everyone for he created everyone in his image. Any attack on his image on anyone, eg racism, is not in his will for human beings. So since suicide is an attack on someone made in his image, this is not in his will.

          My wife is a psychotherapist and we have discussed mental health issues a lot. God understands all the stresses people are under and is a forgiving God.

          However, many christians believe in the sanctity of life, Gods image and you shall not murder. Is suicide an act against God? Also, Christianity is a forgiving religon, would you do a funeral of a suicide victum? do you belive that they should be on scared soil??
    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

      Most people in the world are religious, in terms of the world population, and so most people in the world pray.

      Since 9/11 religion in global politics has been seen to be very significant. So I see it as very important that people study religions to understanding what is happening in the world today.

      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

        Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

        Most people in the world are religious, in terms of the world population, and so most people in the world pray.

        Since 9/11 religion in global politics has been seen to be very significant. So I see it as very important that people study religions to understanding what is happening in the world today.

        </p Could it be however that religion is causing these evils in the world? Wars of religions? That 9/11 was acutslly subjective to a religious cause from a highly extremist group?

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      What is your response to this Epicurian argument, to the unwillingness/ inexistence of God? If God is willing to prevent evil, but is not able to Then He is not omnipotent. If He is able, but not willing Then He is malevolent. If He is both able and willing Then whence cometh evil? If He is neither able nor willing Then why call Him God?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        What is your response to this Epicurian argument, to the unwillingness/ inexistence of God? If God is willing to prevent evil, but is not able to Then He is not omnipotent. If He is able, but not willing Then He is malevolent. If He is both able and willing Then whence cometh evil? If He is neither able nor willing Then why call Him God?

        Thanks. The problem of evil is profound. I do believe that God is good, and is all powerful and that evil exists. I also believe that God has given humans the amazing gift of free will and is not a puppet master, manipulating us.

        Since we have free will, we may exercise it against God's will, and so choose to do evil. He won't keep intervening each time to prevent things he is against, for that would take away our free will.

        I can only point to the cross of Christ and show that God does not sit on the edge of the universe and twiddle his thumbs but is deeply involved in his own creation, in Jesus, and suffered. There is much more to discuss...

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          What is your response to this Epicurian argument, to the unwillingness/ inexistence of God? If God is willing to prevent evil, but is not able to Then He is not omnipotent. If He is able, but not willing Then He is malevolent. If He is both able and willing Then whence cometh evil? If He is neither able nor willing Then why call Him God?

          Thanks. The problem of evil is profound. I do believe that God is good, and is all powerful and that evil exists. I also believe that God has given humans the amazing gift of free will and is not a puppet master, manipulating us.

          Since we have free will, we may exercise it against God's will, and so choose to do evil. He won't keep intervening each time to prevent things he is against, for that would take away our free will.

          I can only point to the cross of Christ and show that God does not sit on the edge of the universe and twiddle his thumbs but is deeply involved in his own creation, in Jesus, and suffered. There is much more to discuss...

          What would you respond then to the issue of Natural evil, such as the haitian earthquake where thousands died, surely a God who is all loving would not create this evil in the first place?
          • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

            Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            What is your response to this Epicurian argument, to the unwillingness/ inexistence of God? If God is willing to prevent evil, but is not able to Then He is not omnipotent. If He is able, but not willing Then He is malevolent. If He is both able and willing Then whence cometh evil? If He is neither able nor willing Then why call Him God?

            Thanks. The problem of evil is profound. I do believe that God is good, and is all powerful and that evil exists. I also believe that God has given humans the amazing gift of free will and is not a puppet master, manipulating us.

            Since we have free will, we may exercise it against God's will, and so choose to do evil. He won't keep intervening each time to prevent things he is against, for that would take away our free will.

            I can only point to the cross of Christ and show that God does not sit on the edge of the universe and twiddle his thumbs but is deeply involved in his own creation, in Jesus, and suffered. There is much more to discuss...

             

            What would you respond then to the issue of Natural evil, such as the haitian earthquake where thousands died, surely a God who is all loving would not create this evil in the first place?

            Thanks, See my reply on the God conversation/thread on Grill a Bishop, where I also refer to an article by Craig Uffman. In short - and sorry this has to be shorthand, there are various false ideas of God concerning such Natural evil:

            1. Vindictive god - but have a look at Luke 13:1-5 to see Jesus contradicting this.

            2. Absentee god - but God does not retire from his universe, he is still deeply invovlved in it

            3. Puppet-master god - I've mentioned this in other answers above, he has given us free will and is not a puppet master

            4. Tribal god - only loving some people and not others - Jesus make clear he is not like that

            God is not like those 4 caricatures. He is loving and deeply involved with compassion for the suffering of innocent people - so much so that in Jesus of Nazareth he suffered and died innocently.

            Hope this helps...it is an enormous question.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      What are your views on such sites that are fairly well known in Amercia such as www.Godhatesfags.com This particular site is blocked by the school network but you should be able to see it. I have looked on the site before and it is quite disgusting. They picket with signs such as "God Hates Fags" "Thank God for Dead Troops," "God Blew Up the Troops" "Fag Soldiers in Hell" Im not suggesting that all christians believe this because that would be a huge generalisation but i was simply wondering what your particular view on this subject was since it is quite a contaversial matter...?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        What are your views on such sites that are fairly well known in Amercia such as www.Godhatesfags.com This particular site is blocked by the school network but you should be able to see it. I have looked on the site before and it is quite disgusting. They picket with signs such as "God Hates Fags" "Thank God for Dead Troops," "God Blew Up the Troops" "Fag Soldiers in Hell" Im not suggesting that all christians believe this because that would be a huge generalisation but i was simply wondering what your particular view on this subject was since it is quite a contaversial matter...?

        Thanks. That is an awful and vindictive site, from what I have read about it. On the subject of homosexuality, God loves everyone - absolutely everyone - and welcomes everyone with his good news. Once welcomed and accepted by God through faith in Jesus, God urges us to follow Jesus and be transformed daily by his Spirit.

        I personally think the Bishops Guidelines in the Church of England, 'Issues in Human Sexuality', form a good and balanced reference point. These state that those who are gay in their sexual orientation and wish to be vicars are welcome to be vicars but should be celibate. They do not say the same about lay people in the church ie that they have to be celibate. In all professions, leaders are held to be more accountable than others: judges and police have to have a higher standard of law keeping than others;  teachers have to have a higher standard of behaviour with young people than others; similarly acccountants concerning financial integrity. So, the above distinction between vicars and lay people seems to make sense to me. It is also worth looking at Paul's First Letter to Timothy chapter 3, where he says leaders should be the husband of one wife ie there were clearly people with more than one wife in the congregation, but those could not be leaders.

        Oliver O'Donovan has written a fine book, 'A Conversation Waiting to Begin: The Churches and the Gay Controversy' (SCM Press, 2009)

        http://www.scmpress.co.uk/bookdetails.asp?ISBN=9780334042105

        This is a book of his online essays which may be seen here

        http://www.fulcrum-anglican.org.uk/page.cfm?ID=130 

        Again, a huge subject. Hope this helps.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Should I believe in God?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Should I believe in God?

        Thanks. It is not so much 'should' as 'I would encourage it'. From my experience, people who come to believe in God become more integrated and whole and less self centred. Not all, but many. So that would be an encouragement  - to be more fully alive. However, the key thing, as I see it, is that God is real and that he believes in you - which is even more important...

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      What relevance do you think that the Church holds in our modern secular scoiety? Has science created the falling numbers in church attendance, and if so, is this not because it has really answered many questions that Religion originally stemmed from? Do we need religion? It is not our only source of morality as many Christians suggest.
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        What relevance do you think that the Church holds in our modern secular scoiety? Has science created the falling numbers in church attendance, and if so, is this not because it has really answered many questions that Religion originally stemmed from? Do we need religion? It is not our only source of morality as many Christians suggest.

        Thanks. Sorry for the delay in replying. Yes, I do think the Church is very relevant to modern society - and that society may well not be as secular as people think...

        I'm not sure that science has created falling numbers - that may be due to diverse factors - nor do I think science has answered many questions which Religion originally stemmed from: eg why is something here, rather than nothing (science can't really answer that); how should we behave towards each other and each others communities (science does not help here either - though 'quality of life' studies are very interesting, and now the World Health Organisation's definition of health includes 'spiritual health'.

        Science tries to answer the questions concerning 'how?' Religion tries to answer the question 'why?' It is not so much whether we need religion, but whether God is real. You could ask 'do fish need water?': they don't know was waterless life is like but water is real. So I believe God is real, whether we need him or not.

        Sure, Christianity is not the only source of morality, but I do believe Jesus of Nazareth provides the most authentic way of living.

        Thanks, again. Great question.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      can you define God??
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        can you define God??

        Thanks. Not really, but I'll have a go. Behind and beyond everything we can experience with our senses, there is an ultimate, personal and loving reality called God. He is deeply involved in our lives and in the universe and has come among us as Jesus of Nazareth.

        Carl Jung, the great Swiss psychiatrist, wrote a letter to Laurens Van der Post, the novelist, which he quotes in his novel 'Yet Being Someone Other', p 351:

        'I cannot define for you what God is...I can only tell you that my work as a natural scientist has established empirically that the pattern which men call God exists in every man and that this pattern has at its disposal the greatest transformative energies of life.'

         

         

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Do you believe in the belief that a cosmic Jewish zombie who was his own father can make you live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell him you accept him as your master, so he can remove and evil force from your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Do you believe in the belief that a cosmic Jewish zombie who was his own father can make you live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell him you accept him as your master, so he can remove and evil force from your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree?

        Thanks. No, I don't. I believe in the God and Father of Jesus Christ.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      How do you view Religion's importance in the modern world?
    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      What are your ideas on homosexuality? Also what do you think of the Church's condemnation of gay issues as well as the philosophical denial of it both biblically and through the means of Natural Law?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        What are your ideas on homosexuality? Also what do you think of the Church's condemnation of gay issues as well as the philosophical denial of it both biblically and through the means of Natural Law?

        Thanks. See my reply to a similar question just now on this thread. I would also like to stress that I am against any form of verbal or physical violence against gay people. See the website and group, in which I am involved: 'Dont' Throw Stones'

        http://www.dontthrowstones.info/ 

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Do you believe that some people hear Gods voice or are they just Schizophrenics who need serious help?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Do you believe that some people hear Gods voice or are they just Schizophrenics who need serious help?

        Thanks. Yes, I do believer some people hear God's voice. Sometimes they mishear him, and sometimes schizophrenics mishear him and they do need serious help.

        The Hebrew prophets (in what we call the Old Testament in the Bible) certainly believed they heard God speak to them and through them to their societies. Today, I believe God still speaks, through his Scriptures, to mystics and to some modern day prophets eg Desmond Tutu. Maybe not necessarily hearing a particular voice, but sensing the will of God for communities eg God being against apartheid in South Africa.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

      Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

      I am greatly looking forward to following up discussions with sixth formers at Gillingham School, Dorset, later this morning between 11.00 and 11.30am. www.gillingham.dorset.sch.uk

      They began when I visited the school on Thursday 25 November 2010, and now we have a chance to continue the question and answer session we had then.

      Are you looking for others to get in on the sharing of thoughts about a question or not?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

        I am greatly looking forward to following up discussions with sixth formers at Gillingham School, Dorset, later this morning between 11.00 and 11.30am. www.gillingham.dorset.sch.uk

        They began when I visited the school on Thursday 25 November 2010, and now we have a chance to continue the question and answer session we had then.

         

        Are you looking for others to get in on the sharing of thoughts about a question or not?

        Thanks for this clarifying question, which is very important.

        These Grill a Bishop conversations are designed for young people and so, if you are not a young person, we are not looking for you to be involved in these. There are many other sites which have open discussions for all ages.

        For young people who are not at the particular school mentioned in the title of that conversation, eg in this case Gillingham School, then we hope they will feel free to 'start a new conversation' - see top right box of the first page of Grill a Bishop.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      do you still believe that the Kings and Queens are appointed by God to rule over the peolpe, if so what do you think about their lack of power and influence they have nowadays?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        do you still believe that the Kings and Queens are appointed by God to rule over the peolpe, if so what do you think about their lack of power and influence they have nowadays?

        Thanks for this thoughtful question. In the Old Testament, God appointed Kings (eg David) and Queens (eg Esther) to rule over his people. He also moved non Jewish rulers to act eg Cyrus, King of Persia, allowed the Jews to return to their homeland.

        There was a concept of the Divine Right of Kings in England - and those on the Parliamentary side in the Civil War challenged this. Since my surname is Kings, I am not at all sure about this...

        St Paul writes in Romans chapter 13 that God rules through the Roman magistrates, see v 4, but then in the Book of Revelation, the Roman Empire has become the Beast against God.

        In Britain today, the Queen is a constitutional monarch and altough the Prime Minister and the Cabinet frame laws etc, she still holds some key power, even if limited compared with her predecessors. I realise that I am influenced by my own context in Britain, but I think our system of constitutional monarch seems to work well.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      What is your view on Richard Dawkins' book "the God delusion"?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        What is your view on Richard Dawkins' book "the God delusion"?

        Thanks. I agree with the critique of that book by the theologian Alister McGrath and his wife Joanna Collicutt McGrath, who is a psychologist, 'The Dawkins Delusion: Atheist Fundamentalism and the Denial of the Divine' (SPCK, 2007):

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Dawkins_Delusion 

        I also Terry Eagleton's devastating critique and review in the London Review of Books, 'Lunging, Flailing, Mispunching':

        http://www.fulcrum-anglican.org.uk/?148

         

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

      Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

      I am greatly looking forward to following up discussions with sixth formers at Gillingham School, Dorset, later this morning between 11.00 and 11.30am. www.gillingham.dorset.sch.uk

      They began when I visited the school on Thursday 25 November 2010, and now we have a chance to continue the question and answer session we had then.

      "Good only exists because evil exists too" Do we not choose what is evil or not? For example, in Nazi Germany they were taught that the Jews were evil. If this were to be filtered through the generations, this could be true in years to come? Surely only what we choose is evil?
    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Freedom to choose is given to man by God. Man has two main choices: 1) Accept the Love of God and, upon death, go to paradise for eternity 2) Refuse God and, upon death, just die, be utterly damned. How is that freedom of choice when it is the same thing as a gun to your head?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Freedom to choose is given to man by God. Man has two main choices: 1) Accept the Love of God and, upon death, go to paradise for eternity 2) Refuse God and, upon death, just die, be utterly damned. How is that freedom of choice when it is the same thing as a gun to your head?

        Thanks. Because you are free to believe it or not - and even ask questions, like this, about it.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Many of the ideals of the Christian Church are taken from Thomas Aquinas' Natural Law. The views on Contraception, The Sanctity of life (relevant to euthanasia and abortion) are all drawn from Aquinas. However in many of Aquina's works he proposed that Rape could indeed be more moral than homosexuality, how can you as a Church promote writings that contradict modern day sentiments and yet selectively choose other of Aquinas' work?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Many of the ideals of the Christian Church are taken from Thomas Aquinas' Natural Law. The views on Contraception, The Sanctity of life (relevant to euthanasia and abortion) are all drawn from Aquinas. However in many of Aquina's works he proposed that Rape could indeed be more moral than homosexuality, how can you as a Church promote writings that contradict modern day sentiments and yet selectively choose other of Aquinas' work?

        Thanks. Great question re Aquinas. Looking forward to answering it later. Have a meeting right now, so have to go offline. Apologies.

      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Many of the ideals of the Christian Church are taken from Thomas Aquinas' Natural Law. The views on Contraception, The Sanctity of life (relevant to euthanasia and abortion) are all drawn from Aquinas. However in many of Aquina's works he proposed that Rape could indeed be more moral than homosexuality, how can you as a Church promote writings that contradict modern day sentiments and yet selectively choose other of Aquinas' work?

        Thanks. I am an admirer of much of Aquinas's work but am not an expert on it. In answering earlier questions about suicide and abortion, I was drawing more on the Scriptures than on the writings of Aquinas - though he based his thought on the Bible and also used the insights of Aristotle. I don't see the problem in agreeing with part of a theologian's thought and not with another part. The is a good interview with an expert on Aquinas, David Burrell 'The New Aquinas' in Rupert Shortt's book 'God's Advocates: Christian Thinkers in Conversation' (DLT, 2005), chapter 7.

        http://www.dltbooks.co.uk/book_details.asp?bID=647&bc=2&sID=&Type=B 

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      What are your view on the idea of indoctrination of children in religious schools? Do you think this is right? Do you believe there are benefits to a humanist view of education by which children are given the choice of religion when they have the maturity to make a full and respecting choice?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        What are your view on the idea of indoctrination of children in religious schools? Do you think this is right? Do you believe there are benefits to a humanist view of education by which children are given the choice of religion when they have the maturity to make a full and respecting choice?

        Thanks, See my reply to your question on the other Grill a Bishop conversation/thread 'Influencing Children - is that right?'

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Will people who have never heard even the name of Jesus be banned from the kingdom of heaven?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Will people who have never heard even the name of Jesus be banned from the kingdom of heaven?

        Thanks for this very deep question. No, I don't believe that, but do believe that anyone who is in the kingdom of heaven is there because of what Jesus Christ has done. I've tried to explore this further in this article, and hope you don't mind me pointing you to it, rather than trying to summarise it here:

        'Jesus Christ, Salvation and People of Other Faiths'

        http://www.fulcrum-anglican.org.uk/?3

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      why are people that are gay comdemmed the exact same way as people that are rapist and murders just for loving someone when they cant help it? isn't gods main principle love?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        why are people that are gay comdemmed the exact same way as people that are rapist and murders just for loving someone when they cant help it? isn't gods main principle love?

        Thanks. This is a deep question and can't be answered fully in a short answer.

        God's main principle is indeed love, but - using a different issue - not all actions based on emotional love are healthy or live giving, it seems to me. For example, if a wife is in love with a man who is not her husband and starts a sexual affair, the repercussions in personal welfare for both families are likely to be traumatic and fall short of God's glory.

        I don't believe God automatically condemns gay people and I don't believe that all lifestyles are equal in the sight of God, nor that people don't have any choice in how they live out their sexuality. People may not have a choice about their sexual identity, but how that identity is lived out, I do believe they have a choice. I believe there are many ways of loving people which do not involve 'sexual relations'. This is worth discussing further personally with someone you trust.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      do you believe that even if you are not a christian, but are a good person, will you still get to go to heaven?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        do you believe that even if you are not a christian, but are a good person, will you still get to go to heaven?

        Jesus shows us clearly that it is not by being good that you get to heaven - for no one is good enough anyway - but by having faith in him.

         Lots of sinners and tax collectors flocked to him and followed him and most of the pharisees, the really so called holy good people, - did not.

        God understands us better than we do ourselves and knows all our motives. I also believe that people of other faiths who are genuinely open in faith to God as they know him will be acceptable to him - not through being good but by faith.

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          do you believe that even if you are not a christian, but are a good person, will you still get to go to heaven?

          Jesus shows us clearly that it is not by being good that you get to heaven - for no one is good enough anyway - but by having faith in him.

           Lots of sinners and tax collectors flocked to him and followed him and most of the pharisees, the really so called holy good people, - did not.

          God understands us better than we do ourselves and knows all our motives. I also believe that people of other faiths who are genuinely open in faith to God as they know him will be acceptable to him - not through being good but by faith.

          I apologise if this is simply semantics, but what you have said implies that no matter how good an atheist is, they wouldn't get to Heaven, having no relationship with Jesus/God/Holy Ghost?
          • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

            Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            do you believe that even if you are not a christian, but are a good person, will you still get to go to heaven?

            Jesus shows us clearly that it is not by being good that you get to heaven - for no one is good enough anyway - but by having faith in him.

             Lots of sinners and tax collectors flocked to him and followed him and most of the pharisees, the really so called holy good people, - did not.

            God understands us better than we do ourselves and knows all our motives. I also believe that people of other faiths who are genuinely open in faith to God as they know him will be acceptable to him - not through being good but by faith.

             

            I apologise if this is simply semantics, but what you have said implies that no matter how good an atheist is, they wouldn't get to Heaven, having no relationship with Jesus/God/Holy Ghost?

            Thanks. Not simply semantics - a good follow up questions. Yes, you are right about the implication of what I wrote. No one - not even a good atheist -  'gets to heaven' by being good I believe from the life and teachings of Jesus, but by the gift of God receieved in faith.

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          do you believe that even if you are not a christian, but are a good person, will you still get to go to heaven?

          Jesus shows us clearly that it is not by being good that you get to heaven - for no one is good enough anyway - but by having faith in him.

           Lots of sinners and tax collectors flocked to him and followed him and most of the pharisees, the really so called holy good people, - did not.

          God understands us better than we do ourselves and knows all our motives. I also believe that people of other faiths who are genuinely open in faith to God as they know him will be acceptable to him - not through being good but by faith.

          Surely the bible teaches that rather than through good action it is through a relationship with God that salvation is acheived? Doesn't this mean that no matter how much one follows the law if one does not believe in God salvation is unacheivable?
          • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

            Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            do you believe that even if you are not a christian, but are a good person, will you still get to go to heaven?

            Jesus shows us clearly that it is not by being good that you get to heaven - for no one is good enough anyway - but by having faith in him.

             Lots of sinners and tax collectors flocked to him and followed him and most of the pharisees, the really so called holy good people, - did not.

            God understands us better than we do ourselves and knows all our motives. I also believe that people of other faiths who are genuinely open in faith to God as they know him will be acceptable to him - not through being good but by faith.

             

            Surely the bible teaches that rather than through good action it is through a relationship with God that salvation is acheived? Doesn't this mean that no matter how much one follows the law if one does not believe in God salvation is unacheivable?

            Thanks. Yes, you are right. Salvation, I believe, is unachievable by human beings following the law: it is a sheer gift from God.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      seeing as God believed in Agape, what is your view on abortion?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        seeing as God believed in Agape, what is your view on abortion?

        Thanks. Agape is the greek word for love and yes, God not only believes in love but is love. Again, he creates every human being in his image and attacking his image in anyone - even in the womb - is not part of his will. So I am not in favour of abortion, except in extreme cases such as rape.

        I realise that going ahead with the pregnancy is a difficult calling, and there are many advice centres that can offer help.

         

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          seeing as God believed in Agape, what is your view on abortion?

          Thanks. Agape is the greek word for love and yes, God not only believes in love but is love. Again, he creates every human being in his image and attacking his image in anyone - even in the womb - is not part of his will. So I am not in favour of abortion, except in extreme cases such as rape.

          I realise that going ahead with the pregnancy is a difficult calling, and there are many advice centres that can offer help.

           

          And what about teenage pregnancy? You may not believe in pre-marital sex, but it is not illegal, and why should someone suffer because, to your mind, a foetus has already acquired the 'sanctity life'? A foetus/embryo cannot has limited experience, but due to religous ideas is seen as being more important than, for example, an animal which has full senses and can feel pain.
          • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

            Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            seeing as God believed in Agape, what is your view on abortion?

            Thanks. Agape is the greek word for love and yes, God not only believes in love but is love. Again, he creates every human being in his image and attacking his image in anyone - even in the womb - is not part of his will. So I am not in favour of abortion, except in extreme cases such as rape.

            I realise that going ahead with the pregnancy is a difficult calling, and there are many advice centres that can offer help.

             

             

            And what about teenage pregnancy? You may not believe in pre-marital sex, but it is not illegal, and why should someone suffer because, to your mind, a foetus has already acquired the 'sanctity life'? A foetus/embryo cannot has limited experience, but due to religous ideas is seen as being more important than, for example, an animal which has full senses and can feel pain.

            Thanks. Yes, I do believe that a human foetus is more important than a full grown animal that can feel pain, because of being made in the image of God. BTW, a foetus can also feel pain. I certainly do not underestimate the difficulties involved in a teenager allowing her pregnancy to go fully to birth.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Ever since I joined a Chruch Of England primary school a question has always been very foremost in my interest, the question being whether you belive it is fair to preach the benevolance of god to children as young as 5 at such a age they are suseptable of new ideas and views and thus have not had a chance to experiance over options apart from christianity, do you believe this is unfair?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 08. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Ever since I joined a Chruch Of England primary school a question has always been very foremost in my interest, the question being whether you belive it is fair to preach the benevolance of god to children as young as 5 at such a age they are suseptable of new ideas and views and thus have not had a chance to experiance over options apart from christianity, do you believe this is unfair?

        Great question. It seems to me that children are naturally religious - they don't need to be taught to be so. So discussing with them at early stages questions about God is naturaly. In the context in Britain, I don't see a problem with Christianity being the main religious tradition to share with children. As they grow older, other faiths also need exploring.

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          Ever since I joined a Chruch Of England primary school a question has always been very foremost in my interest, the question being whether you belive it is fair to preach the benevolance of god to children as young as 5 at such a age they are suseptable of new ideas and views and thus have not had a chance to experiance over options apart from christianity, do you believe this is unfair?

          Great question. It seems to me that children are naturally religious - they don't need to be taught to be so. So discussing with them at early stages questions about God is naturaly. In the context in Britain, I don't see a problem with Christianity being the main religious tradition to share with children. As they grow older, other faiths also need exploring.

          Surely the best thing would be to not teach them about any religions until they are old enough to decide for themselves properly. I would disagree and say that children are not naturally religious...they are naturally inquisitive and have no proper understanding of what religion is or has done. Not knowing about any faith or god would be the best way to keep a child as it is like having a blank slate, they're not biased to any faith and then they can make up their own mind when they are capable of understanding the subject matter.
          • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

            Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Ever since I joined a Chruch Of England primary school a question has always been very foremost in my interest, the question being whether you belive it is fair to preach the benevolance of god to children as young as 5 at such a age they are suseptable of new ideas and views and thus have not had a chance to experiance over options apart from christianity, do you believe this is unfair?

            Great question. It seems to me that children are naturally religious - they don't need to be taught to be so. So discussing with them at early stages questions about God is naturaly. In the context in Britain, I don't see a problem with Christianity being the main religious tradition to share with children. As they grow older, other faiths also need exploring.

             

            Surely the best thing would be to not teach them about any religions until they are old enough to decide for themselves properly. I would disagree and say that children are not naturally religious...they are naturally inquisitive and have no proper understanding of what religion is or has done. Not knowing about any faith or god would be the best way to keep a child as it is like having a blank slate, they're not biased to any faith and then they can make up their own mind when they are capable of understanding the subject matter.

            Thanks. See my reply earlier this afternoon. I don't think it is helpful leaving a child as a blank slate, even it the child ever was a blank slate. Children inherit all sorts of things from their parents. Even in the womb, the health or bad health of the mother affects the foetus eg by smoking or taking drugs, so I'm not convinced by the 'blank slate' argument. DNA is significant and so is context.

        • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

          Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010

          Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

          Previously Anonymous wrote:

          Ever since I joined a Chruch Of England primary school a question has always been very foremost in my interest, the question being whether you belive it is fair to preach the benevolance of god to children as young as 5 at such a age they are suseptable of new ideas and views and thus have not had a chance to experiance over options apart from christianity, do you believe this is unfair?

          Great question. It seems to me that children are naturally religious - they don't need to be taught to be so. So discussing with them at early stages questions about God is naturaly. In the context in Britain, I don't see a problem with Christianity being the main religious tradition to share with children. As they grow older, other faiths also need exploring.

          Referring to your last statement there is no such thing as being naturally religious, like children learn their language by assosiating with the people around them , Children learn about god from their perents and what they get taught at school , if there wasnt any preaching at school the number of childtren believeing in god would inevitably decrease. If numbers were to decrease Dramatically how do you belive the chuirch would deal with it?
          • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

            Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Previously Bishop Graham wrote:

            Previously Anonymous wrote:

            Ever since I joined a Chruch Of England primary school a question has always been very foremost in my interest, the question being whether you belive it is fair to preach the benevolance of god to children as young as 5 at such a age they are suseptable of new ideas and views and thus have not had a chance to experiance over options apart from christianity, do you believe this is unfair?

            Great question. It seems to me that children are naturally religious - they don't need to be taught to be so. So discussing with them at early stages questions about God is naturaly. In the context in Britain, I don't see a problem with Christianity being the main religious tradition to share with children. As they grow older, other faiths also need exploring.

             

            Referring to your last statement there is no such thing as being naturally religious, like children learn their language by assosiating with the people around them , Children learn about god from their perents and what they get taught at school , if there wasnt any preaching at school the number of childtren believeing in god would inevitably decrease. If numbers were to decrease Dramatically how do you belive the chuirch would deal with it?

            Thanks for your reply and further question. I still hold that, since children are naturally inquisitive and ask lots and lots of questions, which is clear, then they are also naturally religious: they have an natural awe concerning the world. If numbers decrease in church, then maybe more vicars and bishops should answer questions in school...

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Christians say that everyone is capable of redeeming themselves in the eyes of God, however if God will 'Turn the other cheek' to virtually any crime, then what is the point, surely this only encourages criminal activity as people dont think there will be consequences.
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 09. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Christians say that everyone is capable of redeeming themselves in the eyes of God, however if God will 'Turn the other cheek' to virtually any crime, then what is the point, surely this only encourages criminal activity as people dont think there will be consequences.

        Thanks. However, Christians don't say everyone is capable of redeeming themselves in the eyes of God - for we believe that no one can redeem themsevles. Only God can do that. We can't pull ourselves up by our own shoe laces. The heart of our belief is grace, God's initiatvive before our response of faith.

        Voltaire said with wit 'God will forgive: it's his job' (metier). However, it is not that easy or simple or presumptuous. God longs for everyone to be redeemed by with their free will, not everyone responds in faith. You only understand the amazing idea of God putting us right with himself not because of what we do, but because of what he has done, in Christ, when you ask you key question ie does this not encourage criminal activity. Paul raises this question himself  in Romans chapter 6. Have a look. Yes, there are consequences and God is just.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Michael Ford at December 08. 2010

      Dear all,

      Thanks for a great session and some intelligent, incisive questioning. Clearly, half an hour is far too short! Bishop Graham will answer further questions later in the week as he has time. Keep thinking, discussing and posting. This thread will remain open.

      Webmaster

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Would you agree that science changes its views depending on whats obvserved whereas Religion is the denial of observation to preserve belief. For example, Evolution.
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Would you agree that science changes its views depending on whats obvserved whereas Religion is the denial of observation to preserve belief. For example, Evolution.

        Thanks. Yes, the basis of science is that it adapts its theories in the light of discovering new facts. However, I disagree that Religion, eg Christianity, is the denial of observation - for just look at the centuries of observation, study and interpretation involved in theology eg in the universities of the world.

        I believe God created human beings through evolution: I am a theistic evolutionist. Some Christian leaders were scared of the implications of evolution and countered it fiercely. The more thoughtful ones in the 19th century, eg John Henry Newman, saw it as discovering how God created humans.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Surely if one thing from the bible (e.g creation story in Genesis) isn't interpreted literally... then how can we interpret anything else in the Bible literally?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Surely if one thing from the bible (e.g creation story in Genesis) isn't interpreted literally... then how can we interpret anything else in the Bible literally?

        Thanks. I don't interpret anything else in the Bible literally. What is poetry - and there is lots of it in the Bible - is poetry. 'God rides on the wings of the wind' is in the Psalms. How cool a metaphor, but weird if literal. So we need to ask, 'what sort of literature is this particular part of the Bible I am reading?'

        If poetic myth eg Genesis chapter one, then as myth. If history eg Luke 1:1-4, then as history. If a proverb eg Proverbs 15:1 'A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger', then as proverbial wisdom.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Would you class Atheism as a religion, as some people do?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Would you class Atheism as a religion, as some people do?

        Interesting question. Probably yes and no... Atheistic states, ie based on the categorical denial of God's existence such as Albania before the liberation brought about by the fall of the Berlin Wall, are involved in worship eg of key leaders, including statues of them, and preservation of their dead bodies and even songs celebrating them. So in that sense, 'yes'. But in the sense of 'organised religion' with sacred books and clergy and places of worship, maybe 'no'.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      Doesn’t the inherent subjectivity of morality prove that God does not exist?
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        Doesn’t the inherent subjectivity of morality prove that God does not exist?

        Thanks, Not necessarily. Only if you believe in your premise ie that all morality is inherently subjective - which I don't. If you believe that, then maybe you define God into non-existence... If there is an ethic of goodness embedded in human life which is given and - well yes, objective - such as it is not good to murder people - then not all morality is inherently subjective, nor, I believe, merely the sum of lots of individually subjective moralities. We are part of each other, each others communites.

    • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

      Posted by Anonymous at December 08. 2010
      If god is all powerful then surely he could make a stone so heavy that he himself cannot lift it...but then if he cannot lift it, he is not all powerful....explain :)
      • Re: First Live Discussion Wed 8 Dec 2010: Gillingham School, Dorset

        Posted by Bishop Graham at December 12. 2010

        Previously Anonymous wrote:

        If god is all powerful then surely he could make a stone so heavy that he himself cannot lift it...but then if he cannot lift it, he is not all powerful....explain :)

        Thanks. Neat question. There are some things God can't do eg go against his own character. There are also some questions which confuse categories eg 'is brown square?' confuses the categories of colour and shape.

        So God can't answer the question 'is brown square?' since it is a non-question. So also, although I laughed when I read it, is your question. It is like an electrical extension cable which is plugged into itself rather than into the socket on the wall - it just goes round in circles but without power.

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